On Wednesday October 9th, I went to see my midwife. I had been seeing blood for two days. I was
a finger tip dialated and told that I would KNOW if I was in labor. So obviously the discomfort that felt like my cervix was stretching like a rubber band was just
a normal part of pregnancy. She did say she was almost positive I would go into labor that weekend.
At 4:30 AM on Thursday, October 10th, I woke up to the discomfort again. This time
the discomfort was 8-10 minutes apart
and peaking after 30 seconds. Once I got out of bed at 6:00 AM, they stopped. I didn't feel them for the rest of the day.
I even went for a walk that afternoon. We had a friend over
for dinner that night. I was telling her that Kendall and I were planning on going to my Mom's
house that weekend because I was sure the baby would be late. Ofcourse, I was having those discomforts again and they were
again peaking at 30 seconds.
Around 10:30-10:45 PM , I was working on pulling some stitches out of the sling I made for the baby.
During one of those discomforts, I felt a pop and some wetness and I knew that my water
My midwife had already called once that night and I had assured her I didn't see any signs of labor.
After all I was supposed to KNOW when I was in labor.
Kendall called her after my water broke. After calling the midwife Kendall wanted to know what he could do.
I told him to go to sleep. He said he couldn't go to sleep and proceeded to check the oil in his
car. I got on the computer for about an hour. I talked to my mom over AOL IM who told me to get
to the hospital. I told her not to worry that I had plenty of time.
My contractions were 8-9 minutes apart and about 40 seconds long. I got off the computer so
Kendall could call his parents.
When I got back on the computer around 11:30 PM my contractions
were 3-5 minutes apart and between 45 seconds and 1 minute long. Around 11:50 my contractions
were 1:05 long and still 3-5 minutes apart. I began to find it uncomfortable to sit at the
computer so I logged off. Kendall was about to go to sleep and I told him maybe he should stay up
. He wsn't thrilled but we sat on the bed timing contractions for the rest of our time at home.
At midnight my contractions were consistantly under 3 minutes apart and 1:05 long. I was still
laughing and joking between contractions so we knew it wasn't time to go to the hospital yet.
At 1:00 AM I started having bad contractions. Kendall asked if I was ready to go to the hospital yet and I said no. About 10 minutes later I changed my mind and we pulled out of the driveway at 1:20 am. At 2:10 AM we arrived at the hospital.
Once we got to the hospital, we parked the car together in the emergency room parking lot
and only grabbed the notebook that I had made for Kendall. The rest of our things we left
in the car figuring that as soon as Kendall filled out the paper work he could go back out
and get them. However, by the time we got upstairs, it was obvious he couldn't leave me there.
I was shaking and I found that I could absolutely not lie down so they took my vitals and
checked me standing up. I was at 5 cm. I was not looking forward to anyone touching me at all.
They brought me a birth ball and let me get in the shower which didn't last too long because I found that
I didn't like it. I asked for something to eat to help the shaking, but got apple juice instead. It did help.
I remembered from our Bradley classes that the peak of the
contraction would come after the first 30 seconds. This helped tremendously. For two hours
I paced the room.
At about 4:10 AM, they checked me again and I was at 9 cm. At 4:30 AM, I still had a
slight lip. During this time I felt most comfortable on the toilet and really
felt the need to push. My midwife told me not to, but I did anyway. I told Kendall I wanted to
have the baby on the toilet and he told me there was no way his baby was going to land in the
Around 5:00 AM, the midwife told the nurse she could check me if she wanted.
I had to sit on a birth ball because she said she couldn't check me standing up. I was ready
to push so they set me up with the squat bar.
I really did
not enjoy this experience. I suddenly couldn't feel any of the contractions. I switched to a modified squat in the
bed but it felt awful so that didn't last long before i was squatting on the floor again.
I kept trying stand up and was panicking. My midwife came in and said she could see the head
and to calm down.
The "ring of fire" is some of the worse pain that i have ever felt.
Mary was born at 5:33 am. She was a little on the blue side so they gave her a little oxygen.
They placed her on my belly while they were cleaning her up and giving her oxygen. Kendall cut
the cord. We forgot to ask them to wait until all the blood had drained from it, but all we
cared about was that she was here and we were so in love with her.
I had a partial third degree tear. Kendall got to hold Mary most of the time while they were
stitching me up except when they gave her her bath. He helped with the bath and I video taped
from where I was lying (they were done stitching by that time). Kendall was upset about not
getting the bonding time we had requested and the other midwife had suggested but I was glad
that they went ahead and stitched me up. We have 18 years to bond with our daughter.
Two hours later I got to walk down the room where we would spend the next 30 hours.